Browsing the net today I got to know
that the day is being celebrated as World anger day…WTF is this world coming
down to?? Celebrating Anger …heights of foolishness I would say!! Am I angry
because of this…yes I am, for there are much better things to do instead of
celebrating Anger.
Now if we dissect anger we would find
that this reaction is basically an offensive action taken when a person is
cornered, threatened or the ego is hurt. We need to be very careful the way we
express this anger … it can break relationships, hurt loved ones or become violent.
No wonder they ask you to slowly count to ten when you feel that your anger is
rising…to dissipate the same and to avoid unpleasant scenes thereof. But then
not all persons are able to control their anger successfully and what follows
next is a shouting match that may lead to violence. There are several other
reasons for a person to get angry – hurt, humiliation, and injustice, loss of
control and our inability to cope with a situation. When we feel pressed,
pushed and pressured, we react with anger.
It is said that anger is a letter
short of danger and I am sure most of us would be aware of numerous occasions /incidents
that have been sparked by anger creating dangerous consequences in the present
times. The recent shooting in USA at a Gurudawra killing 9 persons, shooting at
New York killing 2 persons or beheading of 17 youngsters in Afghanistan by Taliban
or that of Jatinderjeet Singh who shot out the tires of his neighbor’s car at Mohali
have all been done in fits of anger.
Well you find all kinds of
personalities in this world and there are some who are constantly angry….normally
known as “kadoos “and I am sure those are the ones celebrating today!!! So to
all the angry people in this world …”Happy Anger day” ….LOL!!!!