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Friday, January 23, 2026

Tea Kadai Stories :15th January to 21st January

 

Even though the tea shop remained closed for the Pongal holidays, the four of us continued to meet there every evening. We would sit outside for an hour or so, chatting freely about anything and everything—mostly utter nonsense—simply enjoying each other’s company and passing the time.

On 16th January, I couldn’t make it to the tea kadai. Our pet cat had to be taken to a veterinary hospital in Chennai, and by the time I returned to the gated community, the group had already dispersed.

The next day, 17th January, Mr. Chandrashekar—a retired LIC officer—joined our casual gathering. He spoke at length about his years of service and mentioned his one enduring regret: he had never learned Hindi. Because of this, he missed out on promotions and postings outside Tamil Nadu, which eventually resulted in a significantly reduced monthly pension. It was a quiet reminder of how small gaps can have lifelong consequences.

We also learned that Vibra Narayanan, the owner of the tea shop, had gone to Kodaikanal for the holidays, while Guru, the master who prepares the tea, had travelled to Madurai. That explained the stubbornly closed shutters.

On 18th January, we arrived once again with renewed hope that the shop would finally reopen. Unfortunately, the shutters were still down. That evening, our guest was Ms. Lakshmi Shilpa, the niece of our freelance journalist friend. She had come from Hyderabad—an MTech graduate and a part-time actor who had worked in a couple of Telugu films.

When she heard that my nephew directs advertisement films and is expected to begin work on a feature film soon, she asked for his contact details. I declined, explaining that it wouldn’t be appropriate to share his personal number. Instead, I suggested she approach him through proper professional channels—auditions, casting networks, and industry contacts. I told her that if she were ever selected for one of his films, she could then mention that she knew me.

Finally, on 19th January, the tea shop reopened. Dr. Mohandas, Ravindra, and I met for our usual hour of lively conversation. Unsurprisingly, the discussion soon drifted back to Ravindra’s ongoing struggle with the maintenance management over the gas meter issue.

Since Ravindra had lodged a police complaint, the Maraimalainagar police station informed him that the management had agreed to issue an apology letter for the eight-day disruption of gas service, along with nominal compensation for the inconvenience caused. Ravindra is still awaiting that letter from the Ashiana Maintenance Management.

His persistence—constant emails, relentless follow-ups, and firm arguments—along with police intervention, compelled the management to acknowledge their mistake. The incident sets an important precedent, ensuring that the maintenance team cannot take undue advantage of senior residents in the future.


 On 20th January, I was absent from the tea kadai once again, having gone to Vedanthangal Bird Sanctuary with a school classmate for bird photography. We managed to get a few good images of painted storks, darters, grey and white herons, and spotted owlets.

 

 

On 21st January, Dr. Mohandas was away in the city, so it was just Ravindra, Sundararajan, and me at the shop. We spent an hour talking about absolutely nothing—snacks, tea, laughter, and idle conversation—before quietly dispersing back to our homes. 

Thursday, January 15, 2026

Tea Kadai 04 - A week of casual meet

 

On 8th January 2026, the tea shop felt a bit empty. The doctor didn’t come, and Senthil, the banker, was also absent. Still, the rest of us gathered as usual and chatted without any clear direction. Soon the talk turned to love and death. Ravindra quoted some famous person, saying a man becomes mature only when he learns to love death. Mr. Shridhar added that a man actually dies twice—once at marriage and again at the end of life. He also said love begins not in college, but in school.

When Ravindra asked Sundararajan about his college romance, Sundararajan got irritated and asked why Ravindra always talked about love. Ravindra shot back, loudly, that it was his constitutional right to talk about any subject he wished. An awkward silence followed. Shridhar quickly calmed things down, saying there was no point getting upset when all of us already had one foot in the grave—it was better to laugh. Mr. Gururaj, who had just come for tea, caught the last part of the discussion, and soon after, we all dispersed for the day.

On 9th January evening the forum met as usual but was totally subdued due to yesterday’s uproar and the subsequent discussions of the incident over WhatsApp chat wherein our freelance journalist was not willing to accept that his angry reaction was not called for and he kept insisting that we have no right to give him sermon as it is constitutional right to express his views and thoughts about others. A quite day of tea and samosa at the tea kadai.

10th January evening we all met as usual and we had a guest Dr Panigraha , an oncologist who has come to visit his son who is staying in the villas which are for multi-generational accommodations within the gated community of Ashiana Shubhum and studying medicine at the SRM university nearby. Casual conversations took place till the time of dispersion.

I did not visit on 11th January as I had gone to the city and could not get back till late evening and thereby, I missed meeting the regulars at the tea kadai.

12th January evening the forum met as usual and the conversation today drifted towards the amount of water that needs to be drunk in a day by an adult male. Journalist stated 6 litres as per a doctor he met outside whereas our doctor said that the maximum fluid intake has to be 4 litres and as per Google it states 3.7 litres for male but Ravindra was not willing to accept this and he question Dr Panigraha who had also come today and his opinion was between 5 to 6 litres. It was quite evident that each had their own opinion and there was no consensus in arriving at the quantum of water intake. The conversation ended with this topic and all of us dispersed for the day after our usual sip of tea / coffee and snacks. 


13th January both me and Dr Mohandas reached the shop at about 4.10 pm just to see a board tied on the shutter of the shop stating that the shop would be closed from 13th to 17th January on account of Pongal celebration as the tea master Guru is traveling to his home town Madurai. We just sat outside the shop and had small talks and also Doctor was checking my bridge camera and its operations and he was quite amazed by the zoom it has… I do have a Canon Power shot for which I paid just Rs 33000/- whereas Doctors has a much costlier camera because it is a SLR with a prime lens. I have always felt that the camera I have suits my purpose as I am just an amateur photographer and with built in zoom it is good for my wildlife photography and I never felt the need of having a SLR with large lenses.